The last week of a month-long challenge is always the most difficult. I am thrilled that my
mom is making the final days of October easier by graciously agreeing to share
a reflection about one of her favorite books.
My mother is one of the finest people I know. She is gracious, generous, intelligent
beyond measure, a gorgeous soprano, my first piano teacher and she loves people
deeply and genuinely. She married the first man I ever loved, isn’t that grand?
She had a varied career at Washington State University where she was an Associate
Director of International Education for many years. She has a passion for conflict
resolution and mediation. She finished her tenure at WSU as the Associate Vice
Provost for Equity and Diversity.
She is now enjoying the sweet spot of retirement.
I am so blessed to have her as my mom, mentor and friend.
Welcome Felicia Gaskins, my mom.
I have always loved to read and I started reading at an early age.
It is difficult to choose just one book.
However, I hope to read all my life so the book I have chosen is one that has influenced how I am living my life in retirement.
The book is A Room of Her Own: Women’s Personal Spaces
written by designer Chris Casson Madden.
The title reminds us of Virginia Woolf’s essay, “A Room of One’s Own.”
So what does a design book have to do with spiritual discipline?
Initially, I bought this book because I admire Chris Madden’s design.
Over the years that I have owned the book, I have begun to think about how the women’s spaces portrayed in the book influence their lives.
I began to think about how little time I spend on caring for myself.
By caring for myself, I mean physically, mentally and spiritually.
So I have had my own room in our home since I retired.
Having a place to go every morning to read my devotional books and Bible has made me more disciplined about starting my day in a positive way.
At night I read a book called
Blessings for the Evening: Finding Peace in God’s Presence.
The space that one creates does not have to be a big, fancy space.
Madden’s book describes women with elaborate spaces and women who only have their bed or a table in an out-of-the-way space.
In every case the space symbolizes the place where one can go to be alone with oneself and God.
If you have not tried being alone on a regular basis, it may be difficult at first.
I have come to look forward to my quiet time every day
and try not to skip this special time away.
Do you have a room or a space of your own?
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